| Many women really hate the dating scene. Instead | | | | common reasons that people don't get out into the |
| of exposing themselves to the vulnerability of dating, | | | | dating scene. But you will never know how much |
| they would rather sit tight and wait for the perfect | | | | you will be rejected – if at all – unless you |
| man to fall on their lap. The chances of that | | | | actually get out there and try it. In all reality, it's the |
| happening however are probably about as great as | | | | same for most guys as well; men are just as worried |
| getting hit by a bolt of lightning on a clear day. | | | | about being rejected as women are. Finding |
| So if you are one who is sitting there waiting and | | | | someone special is all about risking rejection and |
| thinking "Where is my Mr. Right?" then you may be | | | | taking a chance at finding love. |
| doing a few things wrong. This article highlights | | | | 4. You think that "Mr. Right" will simply fall into your |
| some of the common mistakes women make, and | | | | lap by sheer good fortune. Sure, anything is |
| how to correct them. See if you have been the | | | | theoretically possible, and there could be the slightest |
| perpetrator of any of these mistakes. | | | | chance that you get lucky and have the perfect man |
| 1. Past relationships have hurt you too bad and you | | | | suddenly come into your life in a flash of |
| don't feel like getting out there and looking. Do not | | | | serendipity. But, in the real world, you will need to |
| let a past painful relationship control the rest of your | | | | go out and actively search for him. That means |
| love life. Just as every person is uniquely different, | | | | that like it or not, you need to get into the dating |
| every relationship is also different. Don't let your | | | | scene and test the waters as much as you can. |
| fears hold yourself back from experiencing something | | | | Yes, your Mr. Right can be found, but it's going to |
| good. | | | | take some initiative and work on your part. Don't |
| 2. You think that there are no decent men out in the | | | | be afraid of dating or meeting new people. |
| world. This cannot be further from the truth. It is | | | | Remember, most men are just as worried as you |
| true that not every man will be "Mr. Right," but surely | | | | are about finding that right person. A wise man |
| there is the perfect man for you out there | | | | once said, "you have nothing to fear, but fear |
| somewhere. You just need to have faith in that | | | | itself." So cast aside your fear – go out and |
| and start looking for him. | | | | find your Mr. Right! |
| 3. You're afraid of rejection. This is one of the most | | | | |